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Difference between dire and parlare: Italian grammar lesson 122

Parlare vs dire in Italian: Explained

In this lesson we will talk about two verbs that always confuse learners of Italian: parlare (to speak / to talk) and dire (to tell / to say). These verbs, unlike in many other languages, are not synonyms and cannot be used interchangeably.

  • Non parliamo di politica.
    Let’s not talk about politics.
  • Non dire a Giacomo che sono uscita.
    Don’t tell Giacomo I went out.

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Parlare vs dire in Italian: How to use

So, what’s the difference between the two, and, most importantly, how do we know when to use one or the other?


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Parlare means to express oneself with the use of words in a more absolute sense. We will then use it to say “speak” in a general or metaphorical sense. Let’s see some examples:

  • Parlare bene una lingua = to speak a language well
  • Imparare a parlare = to learn to speak
  • Parlare velocemente/lentamente/male/bene = to speak quickly/slowly/badly/well

Parlare also has the meaning of having a conversation:

  • Possiamo parlare? = Can we talk?


On the other hand, the meaning of dire is more immediate and linked to the moment we are describing. It is similar to the verbs “to state”, “to enunciate”. Unlike parlare, dire almost always takes an object:

  • Dire qualcosa = to say something
  • Dire la verità/una bugia = to tell the truth/a lie

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Parlare vs dire in Italian: Rules

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As we have mentioned above, there is an important grammatical difference between parlare and dire.

Parlare is an intransitive verb, which means it does not take a direct object. Its constructions are as follows:

  • Parlare (di qualcosa) con qualcuno
    Speak (of something) with someone
  • Parlare + adverb (bene, male, velocemente ecc.)
    Speak + adverb (well, badly, quickly etc.)

The only exception here is when you talk about a foreign language, in which the language becomes the direct object of parlare: Parlare una lingua (to speak a language).

Dire, on the other hand, is a transitive verb and it always requires a direct object:

  • Dire qualcosa a qualcuno
    Say something to someone

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Parlare vs dire in Italian: Examples

Here are some more examples of the use of these two very important verbs:

  • Come si dice “____” in inglese?
    How do you say ____ in English?
  • Giovanna parla cinque lingue!
    Giovanna speaks five languages!
  • Aspetta, devo dirti una cosa.
    Wait, I need to tell you something.
  • Non mi va di parlare con i miei genitori, sono arrabbiata.
    I do not feel like talking to my parents, I am upset.

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Parlare vs dire in Italian: Expressions

Here are some useful set expressions that use parlare and dire:

  • Dimmi tutto!
    Tell me everything!
  • A dir la verità…
    To tell the truth…
  • Non se ne parla nemmeno!
    Absolutely not!
  • Parlare a vanvera
    Talk off the top of one’s head, talk nonsense
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